Overcoming Barriers To Active Allyship
Are you passionate about creating a more just and equitable world for all, but feel overwhelmed or uncertain about how to take action? You're not alone. Despite the importance of allyship, many people face barriers that prevent them from fully engaging in the fight for justice. This blog will explore five different obstacles that can prevent you from being the best ally you can be, and provide you with practical strategies to overcome them. So, let's make positive change happen!
Fear
Fear can be a significant barrier to active allyship. Allies may worry about making mistakes or unintentionally causing harm, which can lead to inaction. The fear of being called out or criticized for their actions can also prevent people from taking action.
To overcome fear, it's essential to recognize that making mistakes is a natural part of the learning process. Instead of letting fear hold you back, use it as a motivator to educate yourself and take intentional action. Additionally, seek out resources and communities that can provide support and guidance along the way.
Lack of Knowledge
Without a strong understanding of the issues faced by marginalized communities, allies may not know where to start or how to effectively support them. This lack of knowledge can lead to inaction or ineffective action, which can harm the very communities we aim to support.
Become more knowledgeable by committing to ongoing education and learning. Seek out resources like books, articles, podcasts, and social media accounts to deepen your understanding of the issues. Take time to learn the language/terminology of the community you are supporting. Additionally, seek out opportunities to engage with and learn from members of the communities you aim to support. If you know or care about a young LGBTQ+ person who has recently come out, educate yourself on how to best support them by reading this guide.
Privilege
Allies may struggle to recognize their own privilege and how it contributes to the marginalization of others. This can lead to a lack of empathy and understanding of the experiences of those we aim to support.
To unpack privilege, it's essential to engage in self-reflection and education. Acknowledge your own privilege and how it affects your understanding of the world. Take steps to actively listen to and learn from marginalized voices, and seek out opportunities to use your privilege to advocate for change.
Social Pressure
Social pressure can make it difficult to speak out or engage in activism. Allies may fear backlash or social ostracism for their advocacy, which can prevent them from taking action.
It's essential to recognize that speaking out and taking action may be uncomfortable or difficult, but it's necessary for creating change. Seek out communities and organizations that align with your values and offer support and encouragement. As the folks at the OpEd Project say, “If you say things of consequence, there may be consequences. The alternative is to be inconsequential”. Focus on the positive impact you can have through your advocacy and let that motivate you.
Burnout
Advocacy and activism can be emotionally taxing, and allies may struggle with burnout and fatigue over time. This can lead to a loss of momentum and energy for continued action.
To avoid burnout, prioritize community care and rest. Recognize that allyship is a marathon, not a sprint, and pacing yourself is essential for long-term success. Seek out support from communities and organizations, and focus on small, intentional actions that you can sustain over time.
Active allyship is essential for creating a more just and equitable world, but it's not always easy. By recognizing and overcoming these common barriers, we can become more effective advocates and create lasting change in our communities together!
Take Action Today!
Go to the Protect Trans Youth page for ways to take action, resources, and suggestions for where to donate your time and money.
Has a kid in your life recently come out to you? Check out my guide!
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