Active Allyship in Honor of Nex Benedict
In the wake of the tragic loss of Nex Benedict (they/them), a 16-year-old nonbinary indigenous (Choctaw Nation) student at Owasso High School, our hearts are heavy. Yet, amidst this grief, there lies a profound opportunity for active allyship and systemic change. In reflecting on Nex Benedict's story, it is essential to acknowledge and affirm the intersection of indigenous and trans identities, particularly the experiences of Indigenous LGBTQ, Two Spirit, or Indigiqueer individuals. This consideration is vital for both honoring tribal sovereignty and actively protecting these communities.
Let's channel our emotions into constructive action, advocating for a world where every student, regardless of gender identity, feels safe and respected.
To facilitate your involvement, I've prepared easy-to-use templates for contacting relevant officials and entities, ensuring you can take prompt and effective action in this crucial matter.
Here are 5 actions you can take in honor of Nex’s life:
1. Contacting the Superintendent
The role of a school superintendent is pivotal in shaping the policies and environment of a school district. In light of Nex's case, it's crucial to question the superintendent's responsibility and accountability. Did the district's policies and practices adequately protect Nex? We must demand a thorough investigation into the incident and insist on policy reforms that ensure the safety and well-being of all students, especially those from marginalized communities.
2. Reaching Out to School Board Officials
School board members are elected to represent the interests of students and the community. It's essential to engage them in a dialogue about the existing policies regarding bullying, discrimination, and violence in schools. Let's urge them to review and strengthen these policies, ensuring they include specific protections for LGBTQ+ students.
3. Addressing Media Outlets for Proper Representation
The misgendering of Nex Benedict by some media outlets adds insult to injury, disrespecting their identity and contributing to a culture of misunderstanding and intolerance. We need to reach out to these media outlets, requesting immediate corrections and advocating for responsible reporting practices that honor and respect an individual's gender identity.
4. Engaging City Officials
Local government officials play a crucial role in overseeing educational institutions and ensuring the safety of all citizens. Let's contact city officials to express our concerns about the safety of LGBTQ+ students in our schools. We should advocate for city-wide initiatives that promote inclusivity and diversity.
5. Sparking Conversations and Raising Awareness
Perhaps the most powerful tool we have is our voice. It has taken over a week for this story to make it to mainstream news. Share Nex's story and talk about it with everyone you know. Engaging in difficult conversations, raising awareness, and calling for action are integral parts of being an active ally. Let's use our platforms, be it social media, community gatherings, or personal conversations, to advocate for a world where no student has to endure what Nex did.
Starting a conversation about sensitive topics like the tragedy of Nex Benedict can be challenging, but it's important for raising awareness and fostering change. Here's a sample script you might use to initiate this conversation with friends, family, or coworkers:
"Hey, I recently came across a story that really affected me, and I wanted to share it with you. It's about Nex Benedict, a 16-year-old nonbinary student from Oklahoma. Nex tragically passed away after being attacked in their school bathroom. The situation was made even more distressing by the school's inadequate response to their injuries.
This has got me thinking a lot about the safety and inclusivity of LGBTQ+ youth in our schools. It's heartbreaking that someone so young had to face such violence, and it highlights the need for better policies and support systems. I’m curious to hear your thoughts on how we, as a community, can help create safer environments for all students, especially those who are part of the LGBTQ+ community.
I believe it’s crucial to have these conversations to raise awareness and promote change. What do you think we can do to support these efforts?"
How You Can Further Help: Donate to Support LGBTQ+ Youth in Oklahoma
In addition to the steps mentioned above, one of the most direct ways to honor Nex's memory and support the LGBTQ+ community is through donations. Consider contributing to local organizations in Oklahoma like Freedom Oklahoma, which work tirelessly to advocate for and support LGBTQ+ youth. Your donations can help fund crucial programs, provide resources, and create safe spaces for these young individuals to thrive. Every contribution, no matter how small, makes a difference in fostering a more inclusive and supportive environment for LGBTQ+ youth in Oklahoma.
May Their Memory Be A Revolution
While we mourn Nex Benedict, let's honor their memory by fighting for a world that is safer and more inclusive for all. Our actions can pave the way for meaningful change, ensuring that Nex's legacy is not forgotten but serves as a catalyst for a better, more compassionate world.
For more ways to get engaged, check out Protect Trans Youth and take action today!
