An Open Letter Displaced Siblings of Trans Youth

Dear sibling (though you are so much more than that!),

I'm writing to you today to recognize the immense challenges you're facing, challenges that are deeply unfair and difficult. Being uprooted from your home due to unjust anti-trans legislation is a harsh and painful reality. It places families like yours in an incredibly tough position, feeling like refugees within your own country. While it is not my lived experience, I recognize the depth and complexity of the emotions this situation can provoke.

This forced change can understandably stir a mix of feelings, including resentment and confusion. It's natural to mourn the life you're leaving behind and even to grapple with feelings towards your sibling or parents due to these drastic changes. These emotions are valid and a natural response to such a significant upheaval in your life.

Your role as an ally to your transgender sibling, amidst these turbulent times, is incredibly important. It's crucial to acknowledge that being an ally doesn't mean you won't have moments of frustration or struggle with understanding the situation. Supporting your sibling while processing your own feelings about the changes in your life is a delicate balance.

The decision to move, driven by the need to protect and support a family member, is a powerful testament to your family's strength and love. However, this decision also brings into sharp focus the stark reality of the world we live in, where such drastic measures are necessary for safety and acceptance.

During this challenging time, it's vital to seek support – for both your sibling and yourself. Finding communities, talking to friends, or seeking professional support can provide a safe space to express and work through your emotions. Taking care of your emotional well-being is not just important – it's necessary.

As you navigate this difficult journey, your support for your sibling, despite its complexities, is a significant act of love and a stand against discrimination. Your actions contribute to a broader fight for a more inclusive and just world ~and~ it's also okay to acknowledge and work through the personal challenges this situation brings.

Thank you for the courage and love you are showing during these trying times. This journey demands immense resilience, and your role in it is both crucial and deeply appreciated.

With compassion and understanding,

Rebecca