10 Reflection Questions to Enhance Your Experience of 'The Dads' for Parents and Caregivers

Netflix's 'The Dads' is more than just a documentary; it's a profound exploration of fatherhood, identity, and love in the context of raising transgender children. Below are 10 thought-provoking reflection questions designed for parents and caregivers. These questions aim to enhance your understanding and experience of the documentary, encouraging a deeper connection with the stories and themes presented. Whether you're a parent, a caregiver, or simply someone interested in the complexities of modern parenting, these questions will guide you through a meaningful exploration of 'The Dads' and its impact.

  1. The fathers' stories in ‘The Dads’ provide a perspective on affirming parenting. What insights do these stories offer about accepting and loving a transgender child?

  2. The film addresses how fathers confront their own fears and biases. What are your personal fears or biases in parenting, and how might you address them?

  3. “When you have an experience like that, it changes you. And I've been fighting for her ever since,” shares a father in the documentary. Have you experienced a moment that fundamentally changed your approach to parenting or relationships?

  4. The importance of advocating for transgender children is a key theme. How can you actively support and advocate for transgender individuals in your community?

  5. “The life-changing moment was meeting Wayne — being able to talk to another parent, particularly another father,” a father in the film reflects. How crucial is open communication in your parenting journey, and who do you rely on for support and advice?

  6. After watching "The Dads," how has your understanding of the journey and experiences of transgender children and their parents deepened?

  7. The documentary highlights the importance of community support. How can you create or find a supportive community for both you and your child?

  8. Reflect on the challenges and triumphs shown in the film. How do these mirror your own experiences in parenting, and what lessons can you draw from them?

  9. Which stories or moments in "The Dads" resonated with you the most emotionally, and why? How has this influenced your empathy towards transgender children and their families?

  10. Considering the narratives in the film, what are your hopes and intentions for affirming your child in the future, and how do you want that to shape your parenting choices?


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